Way, way back in time, when the world was young, when computers were the size of a small football field, and gas was 1$ a gallon, I took a class in psychology in high school.
I loved that class. I didn't believe everything our teacher told us, but I still found his lectures fascinating.
One morning as I was sitting at my desk, our teacher said something that filled my young heart with hope, despair, and challenge. He said, "Most of you will have acquaintances you call friends, but in reality, you will be lucky to have one real friend over the course of your entire life."
I sat there stunned, and yes, fascinated in a morose sort-of way, wondering if he was right and wanting to prove him wrong.
Well, here it is 34 years later, and I do have more than one real friend. That teacher was wrong. I've been thinking about my friends a lot lately, and what they mean to me, and how much I care for them.
I love this quote by C. S. Lewis:
Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art..it has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival.
About a month ago I made a list of things I love about my friends-the things that mean the most to me. If I were to write a letter to each one, this is what I'd say:
Thank you for being my friend. I need you and appreciate you more than words can say. I love that we can:
-share our struggles with each other
-and our weaknesses
-laugh together over unimportant things and even laugh at each other without feeling threatened
-I've put my heart in your hands and I trust you
-thank you for pointing my nose in the right direction when it starts to wander
-thank you for accepting me where I am and thank you for not locking me in that place
-thank you for cheering me on
-thank you for letting me lean on you once in awhile
-and thank you for leaning on me every now and then
-thank you for thinking I'm worth your time
-thank you for sharing your plans and dreams with me
-thank you for being patient with my weaknesses
-thank you for letting me vent and listening to me chatter
-thank you for coming along side and relating rather than preaching.
-thank you for trusting me with your heartaches and bruises
-I love the fact that even though we don't always see eye to eye, we do see
heart to heart.
-thank you for opening my eyes to Truth when I need it
-thank you for looking at my heart and seeing that I care, even though I
sometimes bumble along, not quite knowing how to do this thing called friendship
you may be an unnecessary gift, but what on earth would I do without you?
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